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By the middle of January son only birthday, Chen mother these days the net is the gift, receiving the tuen mun.
"Well, this gift is not prepared for his." Chen mother forced smile.
Don't know since when, it seems to be understood practice: the birthday child, popular to his classmates sent gift. Pencil, rubber, books, puzzles, rod bag, toys, all kinds of food to wear in play, can think of all has become a gift list, the price from a few dollars to hundreds of yuan, more and more luxurious.
Parents exclamation: the child is not hurt not, but they can't afford to get!
As a son birthday early buying special gifts
Last week a double tenth, Chen mother to set his only goal is to buy a shop building blocks, and buy on 36 sets. "Son birthday, want to give to children in the class each a set of." Chen mother explained.
Son's September this year just on small class, every time he went home with all kinds of fresh things. A crayon, dolls, puzzles, clothes, electric toy and so on. "Said his classmates celebrating his birthday, each have a share. Chen mother carefully took a look and found everything not cheap, "the cheapest also want twenty or thirty right, expensive to nearly yuan."
In exclamation other parents "not bad money" at the same time, Chen mother more feel pressure "shandong" : "one by one all send so well, and pattern, when we birthday, can not buy the same beverage, price and not ugly, it's huge!"
Before, Chen mother to son bought a new wood blocks, to 50 dollars a, a few days ago doing activities, a set of less than 30. Chen mother hurriedly lay robbed 36 sets. "One thousand dollars less than point, payment time is still very RouTong." Chen mother said, usually buy them gifts are not down so big "malicious hand".
"Thinking about three years is three thousand pieces, really depressed. But not send and no, other children were, you have no, the child will be very depressed." Chen mother said, oneself the gift to move home that day, son and from kindergarten carry the box gift back, is Thomas little train. "Heavens, gift the more and more advanced. What can I do to do. The husband said to don't additional point send together, a building blocks will not too ugly... I also feel like this is not good, but take others, you have to also!"
Receive gift a few days into "waste"
Reporter random survey 20 a kindergarten children's parents, found that ninety percent to prepare gifts for children birthday distributed.
"Was a happy birthday, now not to birthday we'll be very nervous. Ms Lin speaking of daughter birthday big grumble, she has "suffer" whole for three years. "From Joe class start, will send gifts. The beginning I still don't understand, you celebrate your birthday gift to send others? The teacher also don't stop, but also send text messages to inform. Can't ah, follow the crowd bai. Books, colour pen, rubik's cube, we all had sent, every year is rack one's brains." Ms Lin complain.
For parents bao lady speaking, gift is not only money, but also take on a lot of brain cells.
"This year there is no thing to send, can think of, all given before." Have to do it yourself, the design and construction of the painting, back to boys and girls with different color gift bag, "although very popular, the child also feel very face. But absolute spend a lot of time and energy. Class and mother make puppets to send a birthday, it is" pit "mama!"
"Said points gift is to share, but I think children learned a lot of bad habits. Zheng, says ms family all have no the birthday habit, was her daughter's birthday is also very simple, will now be asked, "birthday buy a big cake to double, and bring him to the kindergarten".
"Once I said tomorrow my birthday, she immediately said, what to buy me a doll, me also had no reaction to come over, and then remembered that kindergarten is the birthday person points gifts to others." Zheng woman in distress situation, "I think it points gifts, very extravagance and waste, it is meaningless bandwagon, don't know who open this precedent. And receive gifts, basic become obsolete, fresh a few days will not loved."
"Collective birthday" lets the child learn to share
Birthday exchanging gifts, from more than 10 years ago to send me a cake now expensive toys, it may be said more and more "costly". To this, hangzhou xixi garden kindergarten HuYun kinzley is quite effective.
Years ago, she worked in hangzhou development zone a nursery school as the principal. It was only this a kindergarten, within the jurisdiction of parents the child to send, among them, there is no lack of the rich.
Gradually, HuYun found that "children, parents birthday gift are high-grade". This symptom "bad", the gifts do not guarantee the safety, gift is overweight, gave other parents pressure, more important is, it will directly affect the child's value orientation, "he could in the future will blindly for good expensive things."
So, she told the parents said: "monthly birthday, once a month after collective birthday. Gift, each send a picture or manual small gift will do." As for the cake, HuYun also don't advise parents to kindergarten, "foreign food, one thousand unsafe, an accident, is bad."
Now, the "month birthday" tradition, also into the xixi garden kindergarten. In fact, for the birthday gift this problem, HuYun thinks, "the key lies in whether the zoo care, whether consciously coordination."
The second kindergarten education group in charge of reiter said the teacher, the kindergarten also USES "month birthday" way.
"Each class have birthday exhibition board, a few children focused day after collective birthday. You will sing a birthday song, send birthday wishes. This is to avoid the" keep up with the joneses ", and have a happy atmosphere." Chen said the teacher, some parents think too complicated, "bad atmosphere are all adults used out, the child is very simple is very simple." Simple birthday, the children had also very happy. "Especially said birthday wishes, some would say, I hope you grow a bit higher; some say, I hope you eat a bit faster, these are eat cake play senior toy these material things bring.
Xia yan all XiaYuanYuan kindergarten teacher to think, now only child child, is eager to partner with the collective atmosphere birthday: "kindergarten will tell in advance the birthday several children and parents, they can choose one day in kindergarten together." XiaYuanYuan feel, let the children to experience this share feeling, is the most important.
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