Near the double festival, between friends and relatives are beginning to gifts. I give relatives and friends children chose a few books, daughter said: "mom, this semester I performance is very good, the teacher gave me was full of optimal, you also give me a gift!" "You want to what kind of gift?" Now children, as if is since childhood with gifts "pile" rise, parents give birthday gifts; A holiday parents to buy a gift; Study result good parents to buy a gift; Even grades slipped parents buy gifts......
Many times, we spend time buy gifts for their children, but these gifts to children is useful, if your child needs we all don't know. Maybe do parents, really should seriously consider what kind of gift is the children must be real gifts.
"The mother of the United States" Mary Ann love del mann wrote an article called "the most precious gift" article, this paper detailedly describes what kind of gift should give children: "when I was a child, my father gave me the gift of the love of reading... dad, it seems, buy some books for children, without doubt than buying toys and clothing is more important." Toy just entertainment, have children lack is not so important, sometimes a twig, can let the child play half a day. And the clothing, meet is physiological need, as long as the clothes can and campaigned blocking wind chill, make sure your child to wear clean comfortable enough. Books, meet is the people's spiritual needs, because "every book is a spiritual life", forever, useful life.
"Faith this gift is dad gave me... he taught me: faith need action!"
"Mom gave me love, she taught me how to care for others."
"Neighbor Theresa kelly lady gave me courage......"
Love del man was born in a poor black families, work on their own way through college, and founded the children's defense fund, the remarkable achievements made her won the "America's mother" father, her achievements obtained, and childhood get "true gift" is not divided.
His childhood in the tree to find gifts mostly already did not exist, but those parents and neighbor gave her get life lesson bedfellows, around with her. Can say her success, comes from parents and the neighbor's influence, because they gave her culture quality culture, belief need action, love need to pay, to face up to meet thing, these "gift", is our each parents should give children the real gift.
Give children a good culture and moral cultivation, far more than give them an expensive toy more important.